We at some stage of our life, have all experienced periods of infatuation, moments of pure idolization towards another human... this however is entirely normal until that infatuation becomes heightened. In this event, slowly this persons obsession will manifest itself to a point of being totally consumed by another person to where finally, that individuals every thoughts and actions are entirely motivated by their object of interest.
You must understand that a stalker typically, will not react indecently until a denial of some form presents itself - usually a denial of their love being mutual. If a stalker cannot be recognized by you as a lover, they will be quite content to settle for being a friend, in the event you do not recognize them as being your friend, in some circumstances, they will be equally content settling as your enemy - therein the issue lies.
Many obsessed people after being denied access to another persons life, will force themselves in regardless of your wishes, typically in the form of fear. Whether you are daydreaming your day away with thoughts about someone you have taken a liking to, or in contrast you are spending your entire day feeling threatened, angered or scared of another person, either way you have managed to spend an entire day thinking about one person, hence they have found a route into your life and your thoughts - the very thing you tried to prevent.
So whether or not you are being stalked, if ever in the event you do deny someones access to your life either as a potential boyfriend or girlfriend, make sure that if that same person begins to utilize fear tactics as a means into your life and thoughts, do not respond, do not react, do not feel threatened because most of the time, stalkers are attention-seekers-gone-wrong and thus need to be treated accordingly. Ignore it.
Hate and fear alike consumes as much energy as love does, don't waste it on some deranged idiot.
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